Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Tuesday, May 6, 2008
About Infant Siddha Program(ISP)
The Infant SSY Program is a byproduct of the Siddha Samadhi Yoga(SSY) program. Guru Rishi Prabhakar is the founder of SSY and Infant SSY program. Further, it is enhanced by Raviji n Manoj lekhji.
This program is helpful for anyone from conceiving to having an 8yrs child. For those who are planning, this knowledge helps you to have a child not by chance but by choice.
Infant SSY is nothing but to know the Joy of PARENTING. Before I start telling what is taught in ISP, you need to know few things like what do you understand by parenting? Is it an art or science? (Try to answer them. It helps you to understand in a better way)
Now, to be brief :
Parenting is nothing but bringing up the child.
Art is something, which we describe as an expression of oneself. Any action is defined as art like dancing, painting, sweeping, talking, driving etc. It goes on as an expression which cannot be repaeted. For example, you cook daily but everyday its a new experience, a new taste. And, it's same with other things too.
Science is something which is repeated over and over again to produce similar results.
Now, why did I ask parenting is art or science? The endeavour of ISP is to make it repeatable, by generating similar experiences or responses in specific environment and making it a science. Now, one may argue that handling a child means everytime it will be a different experience. And, one formula works for sometime and suddenly backfires and the child does not respond, as he had in earlier situation when it worked beautifully.
The ISP provide various angles and aspects of handling children and definitely something works. From this one may conclude that parenting is an ART as you handle child differently everytime. You have to be flowing in creativity and spontaneity to change when the tried and tested formula doesn't work. All this disciplines the child naturally, without any force, shouting, without adopting carrot and stick policy.
Now, we can call parenting as science too. May not be wholly, but in some measures definitely. Art has got limitations, but science is always evolving.
Hence, parenting is not science or art but a KNACK. The knack is to tune with the child to such a degree that the very thought, expression look is perceived by the parent, so that parent can verbalise the feelings.
Nenu idanta enduku cheppanu? Okkasari aalochinchandi. Think once, who enjoys the child more? Parents or GrandParents? Answer is, Grandparents. Now that they have time and realised what they missed out, from the joy in bringing you up. So, do we need to wait for 20 years to enjoy your grand children or now?
This program is helpful for anyone from conceiving to having an 8yrs child. For those who are planning, this knowledge helps you to have a child not by chance but by choice.
Infant SSY is nothing but to know the Joy of PARENTING. Before I start telling what is taught in ISP, you need to know few things like what do you understand by parenting? Is it an art or science? (Try to answer them. It helps you to understand in a better way)
Now, to be brief :
Parenting is nothing but bringing up the child.
Art is something, which we describe as an expression of oneself. Any action is defined as art like dancing, painting, sweeping, talking, driving etc. It goes on as an expression which cannot be repaeted. For example, you cook daily but everyday its a new experience, a new taste. And, it's same with other things too.
Science is something which is repeated over and over again to produce similar results.
Now, why did I ask parenting is art or science? The endeavour of ISP is to make it repeatable, by generating similar experiences or responses in specific environment and making it a science. Now, one may argue that handling a child means everytime it will be a different experience. And, one formula works for sometime and suddenly backfires and the child does not respond, as he had in earlier situation when it worked beautifully.
The ISP provide various angles and aspects of handling children and definitely something works. From this one may conclude that parenting is an ART as you handle child differently everytime. You have to be flowing in creativity and spontaneity to change when the tried and tested formula doesn't work. All this disciplines the child naturally, without any force, shouting, without adopting carrot and stick policy.
Now, we can call parenting as science too. May not be wholly, but in some measures definitely. Art has got limitations, but science is always evolving.
Hence, parenting is not science or art but a KNACK. The knack is to tune with the child to such a degree that the very thought, expression look is perceived by the parent, so that parent can verbalise the feelings.
Nenu idanta enduku cheppanu? Okkasari aalochinchandi. Think once, who enjoys the child more? Parents or GrandParents? Answer is, Grandparents. Now that they have time and realised what they missed out, from the joy in bringing you up. So, do we need to wait for 20 years to enjoy your grand children or now?
The Vision
First ask yourselves, what do you want your child to be?
For example,
i) If you say doctor, it means 'YOU' have decided that the child should be a doctor,
ii) If you say whatever he wants to be, provided he is a good human.
In the first case, you have curbed the freedom of child by deciding what he should become. In the second case, you are not clear about the definition of good human. Allowing your child to decide whatever he wants is a wonderful thought, but you have to be a guiding force in the child's life. Whatever it is, both answers are loop-sided in their own way.
The key is EXPOSURE. The child experiences all kind of activities; left and right brain oriented activities (academics, music, sports, art, etc). Then the next most important is imparting of values and sanskaras. For this, you need to follow so that he follows you.
Now, what do you want your child to be, should be very clearly defined in your own mind. It should be written black and white, in short sentences(positive present tense) along with the picture of your child(integral part of ISP). This is called "THE VISION" for your child. The same short sentences can be spoken to the child in sleep and thus reinforced.
For ex, for who have new born children ( till 3years), you can start like this,
DEAR .....(your baby name)
You are silent like Buddha
You are strong like Hanuman
You are clever as Birbal
In this way, write 30 visions.
Here, you are giving freedom to select whatever the child would like to be. We are not conditioning or limiting the child by setting a boundary. Take a photograph of your child, write down the vision in 2-3 inches of letter size and decorate it.
For pregnant ladies, do write the same. Keep your hand on the stomach and read loudly the vision daily for 3-4 times and the same, father also should do.
Now why is this vision important? Vision is for everyone and longterm. Suppose, nenu meeku oka seed icchanu. Elaa describe chestaaru? Smooth/rough/brown color, apple/guava/...seed, oval/round/..., pointed, elongate, so on avunaa. But, can you vision this seed giving 'n' number of trees. That's why we need to write vision to your child.
Oka example cheptaanu. Suppose, your child tells you nenu richshaw pull chestaanu peddayyaka. Meeremantaaru. Just think. Ledu nuvvu peddayyaka doctor avvali, engineer,...so on ani chepthaaru. And, will also tell baaga chadavakapothe rickshaw pull chestaru ani. Avunaa? But, can you imagine one mother told, sarey raa, you pull the rickshaw. Do you know how great the mother is, to tell. Enti surprise naa, great annanu ani. Emanindo telusaa aa mother. She said tappakundaa nuvvu pull chedduvu. Aa Sri Krishnudu anthati vaade radhasarathiga vundi direstion chupinchadu lokaniki. Nuvvu kuda alaage chupistaavu direction ani. She is none other than Swamy Vivekananda's mother. She had a vision like that. And, the child became that.
Jijabai conceive ayinappudu cheppedi, moghulsni antam cheyyali. What did Shivaji Maharaj do?
Conceive ayyina vaallaki inka manchi chance ippudu. You are called as abhimanyu group. Manam edi chepithe vallu ala absorb chestaaru(baby). You can give a very good vision.
Ila enduku chepthunnanu ante, manaki evaraina cheppara ivanni. Ippudu manam kotthagaa cheyataaniki anukovacchu. Manam sarigga peragaledaa. Manam manchivaallam kaada. Manaki values levaa. Right, ee doubt vundavacchu. But, earlier we had joint families. Ippudu nuclear families. Andaru vundatam valla, we imbibe values easily and ippudu only mom and dad, who don't have much time. What will the child imbibe? Manaki teliyadu, mana parents manaki kuda vision icchevaaru. Ila kaadanukondi, but gurthundaa, padukovataaniki laali paatalu paadevaaru. Ex hindi lodi, chanda he thu, suraj he thu,... ani. What is that then? Aren't we giving him vision that you are like sun, moon ani. Enno stories cheppevaru. And, we used to imbibe values.
How many of you sing those lullabies to your child? Mana poorvam, aa lullabies lo enno values vunnayi, vachinaa enthamandi paaduthaaru? Normal ga oka infant edisthe emi chesthaaru meeru. Just think before proceeding further. Emantaamu, enduku edusthunnavi bujji edavaku. Emaindi kanna, edavaku edavaku and all that, isn't it? What you want the child to do adi chepparaa? Edavaku. Vaadiki vinipinchindi enti? edavaku. Before explaining this, close your eyes and try to imagine what I'll say now. " DONT SEE BLUE COLOUR ". Entamandi blue chusaaru? Most of you would kada. Mari meeru baby ki edavaku ani cheppinappudu vaademi chesthaadu, edusthaadu, likewise, manam pillaliki adi cheyyadu, idi cheyyadu antaamu kada, they will try to do that ONLY. Manam cheppinde kada vallu chesedi(this part I will tell when I talk about SAY and Do).
So, manam etuvanti vision isthaamo vallu ala manifest avutaaru. We are just giving him direction to go and at the same time we are not limiting him.
Now coming to, HOW TO WRITE VISION.
Step 1 :
Take a photograph of your child or the type of baby you want for expecting mothers.
Step 2 :
Select 10-12 points from the list of values CHECKED, which you feel are highest priorities, ante for both of you (now checked ani enduku annanante, manam value and idol raastamu kada)
Ex., you are strong like HANUMAN... ilaa.
Ikkada strong is value and Hanuman is idol. Idol eppudu thappu vundakudadu, as it gives direction. Hitler strong kaada, Osama Bin Laden strong kaada? So, writing the correct idol is very important. Suppose, visionary like Narayan Murthy anavacchu. Tomorrow the child may get chance to see him and all. A live example before him.
Step 3 :
Write down these ponts in letter size of 2-3inch and decorate beautifully using your creativity.
Step 4 :
if you have more children, write separate vision and read to them daily and pregnant vaallu, read by keeping your hand on the stomach. Read twice.
Once you are... like ayyinaaka..., you can take individual A4/A3 paper write the values replacing YOU with I.
Ex, I am....... like........
You can make a book binded and read it to them daily, below 2-3 yrs vaallaki.
Elaa ante, write value first then second page lo bomma related, malli next page lo next value and again next page lo bomma related gaa (may be you can keep the idol photo or your child exhibiting that quality). Alaa chesi, oka book la cheyyandi. Roju annam pettetappudu, you show it.
Next one, above 3 years, replace I with WE.
Ex, We are ........ like ........
Ila cheyyadam valla, you are identifying the scope from YOU to WE. Self to all ani, like nenu, manam, anadaramu ane feeling ivvali.
Now, start writing values and respective idols.
For example,
i) If you say doctor, it means 'YOU' have decided that the child should be a doctor,
ii) If you say whatever he wants to be, provided he is a good human.
In the first case, you have curbed the freedom of child by deciding what he should become. In the second case, you are not clear about the definition of good human. Allowing your child to decide whatever he wants is a wonderful thought, but you have to be a guiding force in the child's life. Whatever it is, both answers are loop-sided in their own way.
The key is EXPOSURE. The child experiences all kind of activities; left and right brain oriented activities (academics, music, sports, art, etc). Then the next most important is imparting of values and sanskaras. For this, you need to follow so that he follows you.
Now, what do you want your child to be, should be very clearly defined in your own mind. It should be written black and white, in short sentences(positive present tense) along with the picture of your child(integral part of ISP). This is called "THE VISION" for your child. The same short sentences can be spoken to the child in sleep and thus reinforced.
For ex, for who have new born children ( till 3years), you can start like this,
DEAR .....(your baby name)
You are silent like Buddha
You are strong like Hanuman
You are clever as Birbal
In this way, write 30 visions.
Here, you are giving freedom to select whatever the child would like to be. We are not conditioning or limiting the child by setting a boundary. Take a photograph of your child, write down the vision in 2-3 inches of letter size and decorate it.
For pregnant ladies, do write the same. Keep your hand on the stomach and read loudly the vision daily for 3-4 times and the same, father also should do.
Now why is this vision important? Vision is for everyone and longterm. Suppose, nenu meeku oka seed icchanu. Elaa describe chestaaru? Smooth/rough/brown color, apple/guava/...seed, oval/round/..., pointed, elongate, so on avunaa. But, can you vision this seed giving 'n' number of trees. That's why we need to write vision to your child.
Oka example cheptaanu. Suppose, your child tells you nenu richshaw pull chestaanu peddayyaka. Meeremantaaru. Just think. Ledu nuvvu peddayyaka doctor avvali, engineer,...so on ani chepthaaru. And, will also tell baaga chadavakapothe rickshaw pull chestaru ani. Avunaa? But, can you imagine one mother told, sarey raa, you pull the rickshaw. Do you know how great the mother is, to tell. Enti surprise naa, great annanu ani. Emanindo telusaa aa mother. She said tappakundaa nuvvu pull chedduvu. Aa Sri Krishnudu anthati vaade radhasarathiga vundi direstion chupinchadu lokaniki. Nuvvu kuda alaage chupistaavu direction ani. She is none other than Swamy Vivekananda's mother. She had a vision like that. And, the child became that.
Jijabai conceive ayinappudu cheppedi, moghulsni antam cheyyali. What did Shivaji Maharaj do?
Conceive ayyina vaallaki inka manchi chance ippudu. You are called as abhimanyu group. Manam edi chepithe vallu ala absorb chestaaru(baby). You can give a very good vision.
Ila enduku chepthunnanu ante, manaki evaraina cheppara ivanni. Ippudu manam kotthagaa cheyataaniki anukovacchu. Manam sarigga peragaledaa. Manam manchivaallam kaada. Manaki values levaa. Right, ee doubt vundavacchu. But, earlier we had joint families. Ippudu nuclear families. Andaru vundatam valla, we imbibe values easily and ippudu only mom and dad, who don't have much time. What will the child imbibe? Manaki teliyadu, mana parents manaki kuda vision icchevaaru. Ila kaadanukondi, but gurthundaa, padukovataaniki laali paatalu paadevaaru. Ex hindi lodi, chanda he thu, suraj he thu,... ani. What is that then? Aren't we giving him vision that you are like sun, moon ani. Enno stories cheppevaru. And, we used to imbibe values.
How many of you sing those lullabies to your child? Mana poorvam, aa lullabies lo enno values vunnayi, vachinaa enthamandi paaduthaaru? Normal ga oka infant edisthe emi chesthaaru meeru. Just think before proceeding further. Emantaamu, enduku edusthunnavi bujji edavaku. Emaindi kanna, edavaku edavaku and all that, isn't it? What you want the child to do adi chepparaa? Edavaku. Vaadiki vinipinchindi enti? edavaku. Before explaining this, close your eyes and try to imagine what I'll say now. " DONT SEE BLUE COLOUR ". Entamandi blue chusaaru? Most of you would kada. Mari meeru baby ki edavaku ani cheppinappudu vaademi chesthaadu, edusthaadu, likewise, manam pillaliki adi cheyyadu, idi cheyyadu antaamu kada, they will try to do that ONLY. Manam cheppinde kada vallu chesedi(this part I will tell when I talk about SAY and Do).
So, manam etuvanti vision isthaamo vallu ala manifest avutaaru. We are just giving him direction to go and at the same time we are not limiting him.
Now coming to, HOW TO WRITE VISION.
Step 1 :
Take a photograph of your child or the type of baby you want for expecting mothers.
Step 2 :
Select 10-12 points from the list of values CHECKED, which you feel are highest priorities, ante for both of you (now checked ani enduku annanante, manam value and idol raastamu kada)
Ex., you are strong like HANUMAN... ilaa.
Ikkada strong is value and Hanuman is idol. Idol eppudu thappu vundakudadu, as it gives direction. Hitler strong kaada, Osama Bin Laden strong kaada? So, writing the correct idol is very important. Suppose, visionary like Narayan Murthy anavacchu. Tomorrow the child may get chance to see him and all. A live example before him.
Step 3 :
Write down these ponts in letter size of 2-3inch and decorate beautifully using your creativity.
Step 4 :
if you have more children, write separate vision and read to them daily and pregnant vaallu, read by keeping your hand on the stomach. Read twice.
Once you are... like ayyinaaka..., you can take individual A4/A3 paper write the values replacing YOU with I.
Ex, I am....... like........
You can make a book binded and read it to them daily, below 2-3 yrs vaallaki.
Elaa ante, write value first then second page lo bomma related, malli next page lo next value and again next page lo bomma related gaa (may be you can keep the idol photo or your child exhibiting that quality). Alaa chesi, oka book la cheyyandi. Roju annam pettetappudu, you show it.
Next one, above 3 years, replace I with WE.
Ex, We are ........ like ........
Ila cheyyadam valla, you are identifying the scope from YOU to WE. Self to all ani, like nenu, manam, anadaramu ane feeling ivvali.
Now, start writing values and respective idols.
SAY and DO
We already talked about VISION. Now, let's know about what 'SAY and DO' is.
It has got 3 stages :
1) Running commentary --- For New Born to 1 year
2) Allowing your child to experience --- From 1 year to 4 years
3) Answering WHY --- From 4 years to 7 years
1) Running Commentary : The name itself suggests that you need to give commentary(continuously talk) from the fourth month of pregnancy. The mother can apply this till the child is of 1 year age.
Tell everything to your child in detail. By doing this, we are putting more information in the right brain(brain gurinchi malli cheptaa). Till 6 years, what we keep in the brain, it is stored and later the left brain activates and uses the information stored in right brain. Also, you develop bonding b/w the child and parents. And by storing the info in right brain, you are stimulating him and exercising his/her brain. Tell him everything just like you hear the cricket commentary. Mottham cheppandi. Everything in detail. The child will not feel ignored. You will draw their attention and mentally prepare them by telling everything. And be HONEST in whatever you tell. Manam ippudu edi chepithe adi ala vallaki register ayyipothundi. So tell them truth. They are now embodiments of truth. Help them in staying this forever.
Ila enduku chepthunna running commentary ivvamani ante, tell everything even your financial conditions, intlo godavalu etc. Tell them everything, because we ourselves had undergone this. Ex, sometime when there was some discussion when we tell something, mana vaallu emantaaru, nuvvu chinnadaanivi salahaa icche anthadaanivi ayyava ani? Ela feel ayyamu manamu or sometimes they would have said peddadanivi idi kuda neeku theliyada ani. Inthaki manam peddavallama or chinnavallama, manake doubt vacchina rojulu vunnayi. Avunaa? So, ila running commentary valla, the child too knows what's happening in the house as he is also involved. He will also adjust accordingly.
Suppose, manam ivi evi cheppamu, your child grows and turns 10 years. Then, he comes one day and tells I need 5000Rs, we are going for outing, and I am in for it and I need to pay by evening. Already you have some financial crisis from past 6 months and suddenga ilaa mee child adigithe meeru emantaaru. Neeku illu gurinchi emi pattadu and vellodu. Intlo paristhithulu thelusaa and so on. Did you ever tell your child all this? Why will he try to understand, if you tell today. We always ignore the child, like suppose meeru bayatiki velthunnaru. Do you say to the child? Nenu bayatiki velthuna ivi konadaaniki/dinnerki/something else. Naaku intha time paduthundi, so nenu maximumga 2 hours or 2 1/2 hours lo vasthaanu. Enthamandi cheppi velthaaru to their kids, I mean 0-3 years lopu vaallaki. Cheppakunda velthaamu, as he will cling to you once the child knows you are leaving him and going. But, if you tell, you are stimulating him and preparing him and meeku khali time lo start telling him about your work and how its necesary to go to office and how it helps you and all, the child will understand.
Tell everything. While having bath, every minute detail like picking the tumbler, filling with water etc should be spoken. Else, bhojanam chesetappudu parents, digestive system of the child gurinchi, mandulu icchetappudu enduku isthunnamu avi and vesukovadam valla emi avuthundi anni detailed ga cheppali. By doing this, the child learns constantly and they will not get disinterested. Pillalu bore avvaru, as they are always enthusiastic to learn. Deeniki oka manchi example cheppaaru. Manaki manchi aakali vesthundi, manaki ishtamainavi ready ga vunnayi. Suddenly, evaro vacchi ila bazaarki velli vaddamu, some interesting vi vunnayi antaaru. What will you do, eat or go with them? The answer would be eat first and then go out but pillala ki aakali vesthunnappudu, annam and oka kottha toy pettaaru anukondi, vaadu annam kante toy ni pattukuntaadu. It means, he wants to learn what it is and all. So, pillalu will never get bored.
2) Learning from experience : This goes from 1-4 years. Ikkada, child wants to learn different things. Example, hot and cold, sweet and sour etc. All this should take place in the presence of elders. Suppose child wants to touch something hot, mundu mother should touch and say with action hot ani(ikkada action very important), then allow the child to feel it. Best place is kitchen to explore for the child. Anni tastes like meeru veggies cut chesthunnaranukondi, child ki kuda oka plastic katti ivvandi. Ilaa ivvadam valla vaadu cut chesthaadu. You are trying to fine tune your child motor skills. Ilaa day to day activities lo involve cheyyadam valla they will remember the experiences and learning process enhance avuthundi.
Vaallu edi chesthamannaa vaddu or NO ani cheppavaddu. Suppose meeru ironing chesthunnaru. Your child wants to do. So, first iron chesina batta meeda cheyyi pettinchandi. Vedi gaa thagulthundi adi. Next, just mee hand iron box deggariki theesukoni velli with action cheppandi aa vedi sega ela vuntundo. Let the child know everything. By doing all these, we are developing his 5 senses. At the same time developing the child's confidence. If we won't allow, it leads to fear.
We knowingly or unknowingly impose fear in child. Aalochinchandi elaano. Pillalu annam tinakapothe emi chesthaam. Adigo kaaki ki icchesthunna, nenu thinesthaanu, etc, etc. Avunaa? Inka further vinakapothe adigo akkada aa room lo deyyam /rakshasi vundi, vachchi ninnu mingesthundi ani(but nijamga aa room lo vundaa). Aa roju bhayapetti tinipinchestaaru. Mee pani ayipoyindi. But next day, meeru antaaru pada velli aa gadi lo velli light veddam or bomma tecchukundamu ani. Child ki oka image padipoyindi aa gadi lo buchi vundi ani inka alaa fear anedi install ayipothundi. If the child falls, let him fall. He will learn and develop confidence. Never install fear in them.
Oka example chepthaanu. Manam edi chepthaamo ade chesthaaru pillalu. Suppose mee intiki evaro vaccharu(meeku telisina valle le), meeru water ivvadaaniki lopaliki velthaaru. Your child comes and tells, nenu isthaanu water and already you filled water in glass tumblers. Meeremantaaru, vaddu nuvvu padesthaavu ani(earlier you never allowed your child to do this). Vaadu gattigaa edusthaadu, nenu isthaanu ani and mee guest vinnaru. So, out of courtesy you say sarey teesukuni vellu. But, you will give 100 directions like jagrattaga teesukoni vellu, ila pattuko, ala pattuko, padesthavu, alaa vellu, ilaa vellu and all. Right? So your child takes it and suddenly remembers, nuvvu padesthaavu ani meeru anindi. So out of fear padestaadu vaadu. Meeremantaaru, cheppaana nuvvu padesthavu, etc. Neeku oka pani kuda raadu and all. Isn't it?
But, vaadu chesindi kuda meeru cheppinde kada. Meeru padesthaavu ani annaru, vaadu kuda meeru cheppinde chesaadu. So, try to develop his confidence. He may fail once but you should be there to support his morale. Ila cheyyadam valla natural discipline vasthundi. How many of you like your child to be disciplined in front of everyone? I hope andaru yes antaaru. You want them to be disciplined naturally or just mee kallu chuso ledo meeru tiditheno disciplined ga vundaalaa. It all depends on how you mould the clay. Once the clay is heated, manam entha anukunna daanni vere shape ivvalemu.
All this, you can give right when the child is young and learning and he develops this from experience. Let him be free to learn. Ikkada maaku oka rhyme mana telugu di chepparu with action. Kondaru chesaru with action kondaru cheyyaledu. And some tried to do. Then she said why aren't you doing with action ani. The same, the child too experiences. When someone comes to your house and you ask your child to sing or tell rhymes and the child doesn't even move his /her lips. Meeremantaru bad boy/girl neeku emi raavantaru and all isn't it. But, did u understand the child's feelings? Ade, and once the guests go your child will start telling you rhymes. Meeru antaaru po, ippudu naakenduku? Appudu cheppaleduga ani. Manam chesthe ne kada pillalu mana deggaranunchi nerchukunedi. When young, we would have done like being free but now we stop all that. Pillalu kuda ade nerchukuntaru. It's on us to develop their confidence and to learn that give them their space and time. Don't force them.
3) When the child asks WHY : For 4 and above children. Ikkada child annitiki reason thelusukovaalanukuntaadu. Anduke ee WHY? Ilaantappudu parents answers ivvakudadu. But, allow him to inquire and find out themselves. Deeni valla right brain activate avuthundi. Creavity stimulate ayyi brain grow avuthundi. Okavela meeku answer theliyadanukondi, tell the child you will find out and let them know. And ask them their view. Vaallu cheppinaaka say 'YES', Ok, this is what I feel ani. Ila cheyyadam valla left brain stimulate avuthundi. Reasoning develop avuthundi. Left brain activate avvadam valla the child asks WHY. Never answer the child question, give room for their creativity.
Ask them why it happens like this / what happened etc. Once we answer, we are killing their imagination. Chinna pillala creativity ki antham vundadu. This is the time their brain starts logical reasoning. You would have observed when you give a toy to the child he first touches it, tries to feel it, then tries to open it, and throws down. Before he does something to that broken toy what do we do. Vaadini thitti, aa bommani permanent ga ataka meeda cherusthaaru. But vaadiki aa virigina daantlo nunchi vachchina sabdam lo inko creativity vuntundi. Adi entha costly bomma ayinaa sare bomma paristhiti anthe. Vaademi adagaledu, naaku intha costly bomma konivvu ani. For child, oka 10/- or 1000 rs/- bomma same. Vaadiki kavalsindalla, feel the toy and see what's more it is made of.
Child creativity enthaga vuntundi ante, once a child was going on drive with his parents, suddenly he sees lots of lighting (actually adi oka hotel)in some distance. He asks his mother what is it ani. So mom said, you tell me what are you thinking ani. Vaadu em cheppado thelusaaa, I think it's a big cake with so many candles, may be oka pedda uncle birthday emo ani. Isn't it just amazing to think like that? The same child ........
It has got 3 stages :
1) Running commentary --- For New Born to 1 year
2) Allowing your child to experience --- From 1 year to 4 years
3) Answering WHY --- From 4 years to 7 years
1) Running Commentary : The name itself suggests that you need to give commentary(continuously talk) from the fourth month of pregnancy. The mother can apply this till the child is of 1 year age.
Tell everything to your child in detail. By doing this, we are putting more information in the right brain(brain gurinchi malli cheptaa). Till 6 years, what we keep in the brain, it is stored and later the left brain activates and uses the information stored in right brain. Also, you develop bonding b/w the child and parents. And by storing the info in right brain, you are stimulating him and exercising his/her brain. Tell him everything just like you hear the cricket commentary. Mottham cheppandi. Everything in detail. The child will not feel ignored. You will draw their attention and mentally prepare them by telling everything. And be HONEST in whatever you tell. Manam ippudu edi chepithe adi ala vallaki register ayyipothundi. So tell them truth. They are now embodiments of truth. Help them in staying this forever.
Ila enduku chepthunna running commentary ivvamani ante, tell everything even your financial conditions, intlo godavalu etc. Tell them everything, because we ourselves had undergone this. Ex, sometime when there was some discussion when we tell something, mana vaallu emantaaru, nuvvu chinnadaanivi salahaa icche anthadaanivi ayyava ani? Ela feel ayyamu manamu or sometimes they would have said peddadanivi idi kuda neeku theliyada ani. Inthaki manam peddavallama or chinnavallama, manake doubt vacchina rojulu vunnayi. Avunaa? So, ila running commentary valla, the child too knows what's happening in the house as he is also involved. He will also adjust accordingly.
Suppose, manam ivi evi cheppamu, your child grows and turns 10 years. Then, he comes one day and tells I need 5000Rs, we are going for outing, and I am in for it and I need to pay by evening. Already you have some financial crisis from past 6 months and suddenga ilaa mee child adigithe meeru emantaaru. Neeku illu gurinchi emi pattadu and vellodu. Intlo paristhithulu thelusaa and so on. Did you ever tell your child all this? Why will he try to understand, if you tell today. We always ignore the child, like suppose meeru bayatiki velthunnaru. Do you say to the child? Nenu bayatiki velthuna ivi konadaaniki/dinnerki/something else. Naaku intha time paduthundi, so nenu maximumga 2 hours or 2 1/2 hours lo vasthaanu. Enthamandi cheppi velthaaru to their kids, I mean 0-3 years lopu vaallaki. Cheppakunda velthaamu, as he will cling to you once the child knows you are leaving him and going. But, if you tell, you are stimulating him and preparing him and meeku khali time lo start telling him about your work and how its necesary to go to office and how it helps you and all, the child will understand.
Tell everything. While having bath, every minute detail like picking the tumbler, filling with water etc should be spoken. Else, bhojanam chesetappudu parents, digestive system of the child gurinchi, mandulu icchetappudu enduku isthunnamu avi and vesukovadam valla emi avuthundi anni detailed ga cheppali. By doing this, the child learns constantly and they will not get disinterested. Pillalu bore avvaru, as they are always enthusiastic to learn. Deeniki oka manchi example cheppaaru. Manaki manchi aakali vesthundi, manaki ishtamainavi ready ga vunnayi. Suddenly, evaro vacchi ila bazaarki velli vaddamu, some interesting vi vunnayi antaaru. What will you do, eat or go with them? The answer would be eat first and then go out but pillala ki aakali vesthunnappudu, annam and oka kottha toy pettaaru anukondi, vaadu annam kante toy ni pattukuntaadu. It means, he wants to learn what it is and all. So, pillalu will never get bored.
2) Learning from experience : This goes from 1-4 years. Ikkada, child wants to learn different things. Example, hot and cold, sweet and sour etc. All this should take place in the presence of elders. Suppose child wants to touch something hot, mundu mother should touch and say with action hot ani(ikkada action very important), then allow the child to feel it. Best place is kitchen to explore for the child. Anni tastes like meeru veggies cut chesthunnaranukondi, child ki kuda oka plastic katti ivvandi. Ilaa ivvadam valla vaadu cut chesthaadu. You are trying to fine tune your child motor skills. Ilaa day to day activities lo involve cheyyadam valla they will remember the experiences and learning process enhance avuthundi.
Vaallu edi chesthamannaa vaddu or NO ani cheppavaddu. Suppose meeru ironing chesthunnaru. Your child wants to do. So, first iron chesina batta meeda cheyyi pettinchandi. Vedi gaa thagulthundi adi. Next, just mee hand iron box deggariki theesukoni velli with action cheppandi aa vedi sega ela vuntundo. Let the child know everything. By doing all these, we are developing his 5 senses. At the same time developing the child's confidence. If we won't allow, it leads to fear.
We knowingly or unknowingly impose fear in child. Aalochinchandi elaano. Pillalu annam tinakapothe emi chesthaam. Adigo kaaki ki icchesthunna, nenu thinesthaanu, etc, etc. Avunaa? Inka further vinakapothe adigo akkada aa room lo deyyam /rakshasi vundi, vachchi ninnu mingesthundi ani(but nijamga aa room lo vundaa). Aa roju bhayapetti tinipinchestaaru. Mee pani ayipoyindi. But next day, meeru antaaru pada velli aa gadi lo velli light veddam or bomma tecchukundamu ani. Child ki oka image padipoyindi aa gadi lo buchi vundi ani inka alaa fear anedi install ayipothundi. If the child falls, let him fall. He will learn and develop confidence. Never install fear in them.
Oka example chepthaanu. Manam edi chepthaamo ade chesthaaru pillalu. Suppose mee intiki evaro vaccharu(meeku telisina valle le), meeru water ivvadaaniki lopaliki velthaaru. Your child comes and tells, nenu isthaanu water and already you filled water in glass tumblers. Meeremantaaru, vaddu nuvvu padesthaavu ani(earlier you never allowed your child to do this). Vaadu gattigaa edusthaadu, nenu isthaanu ani and mee guest vinnaru. So, out of courtesy you say sarey teesukuni vellu. But, you will give 100 directions like jagrattaga teesukoni vellu, ila pattuko, ala pattuko, padesthavu, alaa vellu, ilaa vellu and all. Right? So your child takes it and suddenly remembers, nuvvu padesthaavu ani meeru anindi. So out of fear padestaadu vaadu. Meeremantaaru, cheppaana nuvvu padesthavu, etc. Neeku oka pani kuda raadu and all. Isn't it?
But, vaadu chesindi kuda meeru cheppinde kada. Meeru padesthaavu ani annaru, vaadu kuda meeru cheppinde chesaadu. So, try to develop his confidence. He may fail once but you should be there to support his morale. Ila cheyyadam valla natural discipline vasthundi. How many of you like your child to be disciplined in front of everyone? I hope andaru yes antaaru. You want them to be disciplined naturally or just mee kallu chuso ledo meeru tiditheno disciplined ga vundaalaa. It all depends on how you mould the clay. Once the clay is heated, manam entha anukunna daanni vere shape ivvalemu.
All this, you can give right when the child is young and learning and he develops this from experience. Let him be free to learn. Ikkada maaku oka rhyme mana telugu di chepparu with action. Kondaru chesaru with action kondaru cheyyaledu. And some tried to do. Then she said why aren't you doing with action ani. The same, the child too experiences. When someone comes to your house and you ask your child to sing or tell rhymes and the child doesn't even move his /her lips. Meeremantaru bad boy/girl neeku emi raavantaru and all isn't it. But, did u understand the child's feelings? Ade, and once the guests go your child will start telling you rhymes. Meeru antaaru po, ippudu naakenduku? Appudu cheppaleduga ani. Manam chesthe ne kada pillalu mana deggaranunchi nerchukunedi. When young, we would have done like being free but now we stop all that. Pillalu kuda ade nerchukuntaru. It's on us to develop their confidence and to learn that give them their space and time. Don't force them.
3) When the child asks WHY : For 4 and above children. Ikkada child annitiki reason thelusukovaalanukuntaadu. Anduke ee WHY? Ilaantappudu parents answers ivvakudadu. But, allow him to inquire and find out themselves. Deeni valla right brain activate avuthundi. Creavity stimulate ayyi brain grow avuthundi. Okavela meeku answer theliyadanukondi, tell the child you will find out and let them know. And ask them their view. Vaallu cheppinaaka say 'YES', Ok, this is what I feel ani. Ila cheyyadam valla left brain stimulate avuthundi. Reasoning develop avuthundi. Left brain activate avvadam valla the child asks WHY. Never answer the child question, give room for their creativity.
Ask them why it happens like this / what happened etc. Once we answer, we are killing their imagination. Chinna pillala creativity ki antham vundadu. This is the time their brain starts logical reasoning. You would have observed when you give a toy to the child he first touches it, tries to feel it, then tries to open it, and throws down. Before he does something to that broken toy what do we do. Vaadini thitti, aa bommani permanent ga ataka meeda cherusthaaru. But vaadiki aa virigina daantlo nunchi vachchina sabdam lo inko creativity vuntundi. Adi entha costly bomma ayinaa sare bomma paristhiti anthe. Vaademi adagaledu, naaku intha costly bomma konivvu ani. For child, oka 10/- or 1000 rs/- bomma same. Vaadiki kavalsindalla, feel the toy and see what's more it is made of.
Child creativity enthaga vuntundi ante, once a child was going on drive with his parents, suddenly he sees lots of lighting (actually adi oka hotel)in some distance. He asks his mother what is it ani. So mom said, you tell me what are you thinking ani. Vaadu em cheppado thelusaaa, I think it's a big cake with so many candles, may be oka pedda uncle birthday emo ani. Isn't it just amazing to think like that? The same child ........
Thursday, May 1, 2008
Reiki means?
Reiki(pronounced as ray-key) means Universal Vital Life Force Energy. It is simple and a natural healing method. You can go through the following links for more information.
Basic Information About Reiki
How Reiki And The 7 Chakras In Our Body Work
An Ancient Healing Art
You can get idea about the same from one of our expert. She says,
" It is not about another mind reading or getting connected to someone. Briefga cheppalante, it is a form of science where the chakras in your body are opened. Opening these chakras lets you get connected to the universe. With this you can get energy from the universe to heal pain and diseases. But since you are opened to the universe, kondari caseslo (like mine), u have such paranormal experiences, intuition increase avthundi. it is AMAZING!
Reiki anedi, basicga elanti miracle technique kadu. At its simplest, it is most commonly used, and known for its use in healing. When a master opens your chakras(ela ante, nenu cheppalenu, cause it is revealed only to those who do their masters course), the universal can start flowing through you. With this energy you can heal people or heal yourself of many diseases and maladies. Reiki treatment is not miraculously fast. The success of the treatment depends a lot on the giver and reciever of reiki, and their confidence and belief in it. Since in reiki your chakras are opened, you are open to the universal energy. We can initally imagine the chakras as closed doors. There is energy around all of us, but we can't receive them, because the doors to let the energy in, are closed. When these doors are opened, the universal energy can flow in. This energy like air, flows into our body. We can then use our hands to guide this energy in any direction that we like. There is no actual chantings involved.
We can give reiki to ourselves, someone else in front of us are far away from us(however distant reiki ivvalante, we need to do our 2nd degree), to lifeless objects, animals, trees, house, incidents in the past or future. We can give reiki to almost anything and everything.
Other than for healing:
- we can use reiki for giving positive energy to our intentions, dreams and wishes.
- We can give reiki to people, to try and change them in a positive way.
- we can give reiki to innanimate things to make them work properly or work well.
- We can give reiki to animals to convey our love, or heal them or make them calm.
- We can give reiki to incidents in the past to heal them. Eg: some bitter experience anukondi, mana pastlo, and it has affected us badly....we can give reiki to that incident in the past, so as to try and reduce its impact on our present and future.
- we can give reiki to incidents and events that will occur in the future, so that they go well, and as intended. Eg: if we have to write our exams/ we have to go for an interview, we can give reiki to that event in the future and declare that the event will go as intended.
- Imagination vundaali gaani, we can use reiki for anything and everything (positive directionlo maatrame).
Since you are now closer to the universe than before, your wishes and positive thinking are better heeded, since the messages and wishes go directly into the universe.
Inka raasthu velthunte, I can go on and on. But everything said and done, Reiki is not any form of magic. I have known so many people who have done their first degree reiki and have never used it, or benefited from it. Many a time it all boils down to the person, the master, and your trust and confidence level in what you are learning, and will eventually use.
Even if you use reiki and have complete and total faith on it, you may not become intuitive. You may not experience any sort of events that I mentioned. Infact naaku kuda, after a point of time, alanti intuitions and experiences thaggipooyaayi. This is basically because of my own desires anukondi. I learnt to block myself from people and my environment. I tried hard and succeeded to one extent, in not allowing the /my surroundings affect me. "
Basic Information About Reiki
How Reiki And The 7 Chakras In Our Body Work
An Ancient Healing Art
You can get idea about the same from one of our expert. She says,
" It is not about another mind reading or getting connected to someone. Briefga cheppalante, it is a form of science where the chakras in your body are opened. Opening these chakras lets you get connected to the universe. With this you can get energy from the universe to heal pain and diseases. But since you are opened to the universe, kondari caseslo (like mine), u have such paranormal experiences, intuition increase avthundi. it is AMAZING!
Reiki anedi, basicga elanti miracle technique kadu. At its simplest, it is most commonly used, and known for its use in healing. When a master opens your chakras(ela ante, nenu cheppalenu, cause it is revealed only to those who do their masters course), the universal can start flowing through you. With this energy you can heal people or heal yourself of many diseases and maladies. Reiki treatment is not miraculously fast. The success of the treatment depends a lot on the giver and reciever of reiki, and their confidence and belief in it. Since in reiki your chakras are opened, you are open to the universal energy. We can initally imagine the chakras as closed doors. There is energy around all of us, but we can't receive them, because the doors to let the energy in, are closed. When these doors are opened, the universal energy can flow in. This energy like air, flows into our body. We can then use our hands to guide this energy in any direction that we like. There is no actual chantings involved.
We can give reiki to ourselves, someone else in front of us are far away from us(however distant reiki ivvalante, we need to do our 2nd degree), to lifeless objects, animals, trees, house, incidents in the past or future. We can give reiki to almost anything and everything.
Other than for healing:
- we can use reiki for giving positive energy to our intentions, dreams and wishes.
- We can give reiki to people, to try and change them in a positive way.
- we can give reiki to innanimate things to make them work properly or work well.
- We can give reiki to animals to convey our love, or heal them or make them calm.
- We can give reiki to incidents in the past to heal them. Eg: some bitter experience anukondi, mana pastlo, and it has affected us badly....we can give reiki to that incident in the past, so as to try and reduce its impact on our present and future.
- we can give reiki to incidents and events that will occur in the future, so that they go well, and as intended. Eg: if we have to write our exams/ we have to go for an interview, we can give reiki to that event in the future and declare that the event will go as intended.
- Imagination vundaali gaani, we can use reiki for anything and everything (positive directionlo maatrame).
Since you are now closer to the universe than before, your wishes and positive thinking are better heeded, since the messages and wishes go directly into the universe.
Inka raasthu velthunte, I can go on and on. But everything said and done, Reiki is not any form of magic. I have known so many people who have done their first degree reiki and have never used it, or benefited from it. Many a time it all boils down to the person, the master, and your trust and confidence level in what you are learning, and will eventually use.
Even if you use reiki and have complete and total faith on it, you may not become intuitive. You may not experience any sort of events that I mentioned. Infact naaku kuda, after a point of time, alanti intuitions and experiences thaggipooyaayi. This is basically because of my own desires anukondi. I learnt to block myself from people and my environment. I tried hard and succeeded to one extent, in not allowing the /my surroundings affect me. "
Reiki Experiences
Swetha says,
" Nenu reiki kothaga chesinappudu (first degree), I became very intuitive and receptive. Depending on how people and environment around me was, I became easily affected by them/it. I used to catch on to people's thoughts sometimes, which was crazy freaky. Abbaddham cheppatledu. I scared people away. They used to literally freak out. Oka friend vundedi. Thanu oka type ammayi. I dont like to speak ill about anyone. But I am just saying this because I wanted to tell about this incident. Thanaki oo vidamaina strange habit vundedi. She used enjoy it a lot when some guy fell for her. Thanaki intlo attention and prema anthaga dorakaledu. so whenever any guy fell for her, she used to love it. she used to not love the guy, but the special feeling that comes around when someone likes/loves u specially. Inka once she experienced this feeling once or twice, she started behaving in such a way, that guys start getting attracted to her. Badga emi kadu, like physicalga, but emotionalga. For all that boys are strong and cold, they are emotional fools. she used to try and find out any significant problem a guy may have, and then give them extreme sympathy and support. Meeru nammaru, it used to work, and they used to go CRAZY about her. Naaku chaala paapam anipinchedi.
Inka ivvanni enduku chepthunaanante, well ila thana kosam head over heels padda oka abbayi gurinchi cheppaddaaniki. Vaadi peru A. He was from Delhi. She found out about this guy from one of her friend's in a diff coll. She got to know that he was very depressed about leaving his family and coming to b'lore to study. I guess he was very attached to his family. Inka ila info dorakagaane, she mailed him as an anonymous person and started being very very affectionate and sympathetic to him. Eventually she also told him who she was. Asale familyni vidichi vachchadu thanu. Ila care and affection chuputhundi ani, he fell madly in love with her. Appudu memu kalisi chaala ekkuva reiki chesevaaram. I dont know why, but I got mentally connected to this guy. I had no connection to him whatsoever. I just knew him as an acquaintance, nothing more than that. But enduko, maybe his love was soo deep and intense, and maybe because, at that point of time that friend was quite close to me. I got connected to him mentally. For over a period of one month, intense torture anubhavinchyanu. Thana every thought, every feeling, evaru wireless transmission chesinattu naaku andedi. Every thought and feeling relating to his love for S. Entha cleansing(reiki cleansing) chesukunna, I couldnt cut this connection. Thanu ye timelo S gurinchi emi alochisthunaadu ani naaku thelisedi. Thana prathi oka plan, as to how to try and please S, how to and when to meet her, thana baada S rejection valla, everything thelisedi. Then I started to ask him, ila aloochinchyavuga, ila chesyavuga, ila anukunnaavu ga ani. Picha pichaga bayapadi pooyadu. Actions ante evaraina cheppi theliyochu, but naa thoughts, ye timelo emi aloochinchyanu ani ela thelisindi ee ammaayiki ani. Inka I used to tell S and common friends, choodu, he plans to meet you like this at this time and at such and such a place ani. Correctga ade time ki alage vachevaadu.
He used to pretend like he bumped into us, but paapam thanaki initialga theliyaduga, ee vichitram gurinchi. I used to go crazy honestly. I didn't want this mental connection. Asalu thanu depressedga vunte, nenu depress ayipoye daanini. 24 hrs, irrespective of where he was, I used to know what was going on his mind. Ee whole incidentlo, everyone, around 10 friends, myself and that boy (A)....all of us where SHOCKED and freaked by this extremely strange incident. Ippatiki thaluchukunte.... how..... how the hell is this possible ani anipisthundi. But imagination ani kotti paareyya lenu. 1 whole month ee experience....sakshamga and proofga, antha mandi friends and that boy. Ento, really really strange experience!!! "
Rekha says,
" Nenu Anantapur lo chadivetappudu chusaanu, I was wonderstruck the way it works. Oka ammayi Radhika ani vundedhi. She used to do all the three degrees. Evarikaina health problem vacchina she was there. Alaa chesetappudu, they will not allow anyone to be there in the room, as when they are removing negative forces. The same may enter who is nearby. Andukani evarini vundanivvaru. Maa senior ki okasari 104 varaku vellindi fever, so Radhika said she will do ani. Oka ganta sepu or more she did then you should see tanaki fever almost 100 varaku vacchesindi. Ilaa chaala chusaanu nenu. Then, I started actually believing it... "
Lavanya says,
" Naaku specificga Reiki gurinchi theledu, kaani I had a yoga teacher when I was in India and avidaki entha power ante one day when we both were meditating, I was thinking about something in my mind and she answered that everything will be fine, nenu kallu terichi chusesariki avida kallu musukune unaru and later she asked me whether she talked anything ani, I said what happened. But, she was not aware of what happened anta and also avidaki edaina problem lo unaru ani evari gurinchaina chepthe, she used to ask them to call her and valla voice tho avida connect chesukuni vallakosam pray chesevaru and vallaki aa problem clear ayipoyedi. Her way of doing is all by meditation and praying but I agree there are so many powerful things in this world that we cannot understand. But I always feel great to have a teacher like that, she taught me so many great things. "
Hyma says,
" Aunty maaku eppudanna balenappudu healing chesevaru, I don't know whether its reiki or so. But pooja room lo thanu pooja chesaka memu kurchunte thanu body lo konni key points daggara some massage laga chese varu. Just for couple of minutes, entha fast reaction ante headache lantivi oka 5 min lo taggipoyevi. At the max, etuvantidaina 1 day lo taggipoyedi if its external pain. Mana body lo vunde chakras and their energy levels vallane mana body fitness base ayyi vuntundi. "
" Nenu reiki kothaga chesinappudu (first degree), I became very intuitive and receptive. Depending on how people and environment around me was, I became easily affected by them/it. I used to catch on to people's thoughts sometimes, which was crazy freaky. Abbaddham cheppatledu. I scared people away. They used to literally freak out. Oka friend vundedi. Thanu oka type ammayi. I dont like to speak ill about anyone. But I am just saying this because I wanted to tell about this incident. Thanaki oo vidamaina strange habit vundedi. She used enjoy it a lot when some guy fell for her. Thanaki intlo attention and prema anthaga dorakaledu. so whenever any guy fell for her, she used to love it. she used to not love the guy, but the special feeling that comes around when someone likes/loves u specially. Inka once she experienced this feeling once or twice, she started behaving in such a way, that guys start getting attracted to her. Badga emi kadu, like physicalga, but emotionalga. For all that boys are strong and cold, they are emotional fools. she used to try and find out any significant problem a guy may have, and then give them extreme sympathy and support. Meeru nammaru, it used to work, and they used to go CRAZY about her. Naaku chaala paapam anipinchedi.
Inka ivvanni enduku chepthunaanante, well ila thana kosam head over heels padda oka abbayi gurinchi cheppaddaaniki. Vaadi peru A. He was from Delhi. She found out about this guy from one of her friend's in a diff coll. She got to know that he was very depressed about leaving his family and coming to b'lore to study. I guess he was very attached to his family. Inka ila info dorakagaane, she mailed him as an anonymous person and started being very very affectionate and sympathetic to him. Eventually she also told him who she was. Asale familyni vidichi vachchadu thanu. Ila care and affection chuputhundi ani, he fell madly in love with her. Appudu memu kalisi chaala ekkuva reiki chesevaaram. I dont know why, but I got mentally connected to this guy. I had no connection to him whatsoever. I just knew him as an acquaintance, nothing more than that. But enduko, maybe his love was soo deep and intense, and maybe because, at that point of time that friend was quite close to me. I got connected to him mentally. For over a period of one month, intense torture anubhavinchyanu. Thana every thought, every feeling, evaru wireless transmission chesinattu naaku andedi. Every thought and feeling relating to his love for S. Entha cleansing(reiki cleansing) chesukunna, I couldnt cut this connection. Thanu ye timelo S gurinchi emi alochisthunaadu ani naaku thelisedi. Thana prathi oka plan, as to how to try and please S, how to and when to meet her, thana baada S rejection valla, everything thelisedi. Then I started to ask him, ila aloochinchyavuga, ila chesyavuga, ila anukunnaavu ga ani. Picha pichaga bayapadi pooyadu. Actions ante evaraina cheppi theliyochu, but naa thoughts, ye timelo emi aloochinchyanu ani ela thelisindi ee ammaayiki ani. Inka I used to tell S and common friends, choodu, he plans to meet you like this at this time and at such and such a place ani. Correctga ade time ki alage vachevaadu.
He used to pretend like he bumped into us, but paapam thanaki initialga theliyaduga, ee vichitram gurinchi. I used to go crazy honestly. I didn't want this mental connection. Asalu thanu depressedga vunte, nenu depress ayipoye daanini. 24 hrs, irrespective of where he was, I used to know what was going on his mind. Ee whole incidentlo, everyone, around 10 friends, myself and that boy (A)....all of us where SHOCKED and freaked by this extremely strange incident. Ippatiki thaluchukunte.... how..... how the hell is this possible ani anipisthundi. But imagination ani kotti paareyya lenu. 1 whole month ee experience....sakshamga and proofga, antha mandi friends and that boy. Ento, really really strange experience!!! "
Rekha says,
" Nenu Anantapur lo chadivetappudu chusaanu, I was wonderstruck the way it works. Oka ammayi Radhika ani vundedhi. She used to do all the three degrees. Evarikaina health problem vacchina she was there. Alaa chesetappudu, they will not allow anyone to be there in the room, as when they are removing negative forces. The same may enter who is nearby. Andukani evarini vundanivvaru. Maa senior ki okasari 104 varaku vellindi fever, so Radhika said she will do ani. Oka ganta sepu or more she did then you should see tanaki fever almost 100 varaku vacchesindi. Ilaa chaala chusaanu nenu. Then, I started actually believing it... "
Lavanya says,
" Naaku specificga Reiki gurinchi theledu, kaani I had a yoga teacher when I was in India and avidaki entha power ante one day when we both were meditating, I was thinking about something in my mind and she answered that everything will be fine, nenu kallu terichi chusesariki avida kallu musukune unaru and later she asked me whether she talked anything ani, I said what happened. But, she was not aware of what happened anta and also avidaki edaina problem lo unaru ani evari gurinchaina chepthe, she used to ask them to call her and valla voice tho avida connect chesukuni vallakosam pray chesevaru and vallaki aa problem clear ayipoyedi. Her way of doing is all by meditation and praying but I agree there are so many powerful things in this world that we cannot understand. But I always feel great to have a teacher like that, she taught me so many great things. "
Hyma says,
" Aunty maaku eppudanna balenappudu healing chesevaru, I don't know whether its reiki or so. But pooja room lo thanu pooja chesaka memu kurchunte thanu body lo konni key points daggara some massage laga chese varu. Just for couple of minutes, entha fast reaction ante headache lantivi oka 5 min lo taggipoyevi. At the max, etuvantidaina 1 day lo taggipoyedi if its external pain. Mana body lo vunde chakras and their energy levels vallane mana body fitness base ayyi vuntundi. "
Reiki Q & A's
1. Sangeetha - Ela nerchukunnavvu reiki?
A. Swetha - Reiki masters vuntaaru. Vaallatho nerchukoovaali. Naa abhiprayam prakaram, it is important that you learn with a gud master. Leka pothe reikini value chesedi and use chesedi kashtam ayipothundi. Naa reiki master, Prasad Acharya ani B'lorean. He is an amazing reiki master! And, nenu reiki third degree varaku chesaanu. Reiki master was very good. He knows a lot about all this. Thanani adigaanu, ee instincts, sixth sense antha enti ani. He said, something about the human's consciousness is beyond the human's own understanding, and has many amazing capabilities. He said the consciousness can wander around too, and also communicate with the universe and other consiousness , without the human knowing about it.
2. Sangeetha - How is that possible? Chaala vichithram kada and chaala interesting ga undi. May be donga Swamiji's ilanti vidyani nerchukuntaaru emo kada ...
A. Swetha - Nuvvu nammavu, naaku alaane anipinchindhi. Maybe there is some way in which this mind reading andd connectivity can be controlled. Naaku total uncontrolled waylo ayyindi. But maybe this is some sort of a science and some people may have mastered it!!! Naaku aa thought vachindhi. Maybe there is some secret art, where you can learn to read, understand another's mind. Adi thelusukoni intha dabbu sampaadhinchesthunaaremo.
3. Bindu - I've attended one day crash course on this to know how it works but never
practiced it:)
A. Swetha - Every degree of reiki will last only for one day. But is it a crash course to know about reiki or did u actually do your first degree? Sounds more like you did your first degree kada. Cheppaanuga, there will be many who do their first degree and never use it ani.
4. Swetha - My dad learned reiki. He used to do sometime back. Kani daniki everyday koncham sepu meditation cheyali. Chala mind power kavali. Manam vere valaki reiki chestunapudu, mana chetulu heat ekipotundi. So, manaki chala energy kavali. Naku nerchukovalani undedi. kani epudu antha concentrate cheyali. maa dad kooda manesaru.
A. Swetha - Daily practise avasaram ledu. It is suggested only for 21 days after you finish your degree. Inka, yeah concentration, belief and trust avasaram. Yes, energy flow kada, so reiki ichetappudu, chethulu heat ekkuthundi, but usually deeni kosam ani energy avasaram ledu, but you need to be strong so that you don't take on what you are trying to heat. Esp, when cleansing and healing people suffering from depression or negativity, you should be careful and strong, because if you are not alert or weak, you can take in the negativity into you. According to me, in reiki you need to first learn to be strong(mentally). I didn't have this ability in the begining, so I used to get easily impressed by any energy around me (either +ve or -ve). Then once I learnt how to control the energy flow through me, there was no looking back.
5. Bindu - Maa friendki okasari stomach ache ante chesanu ofcourse appatike tanu tab
vesukundi, mari daniki taggindo deniki tagindo telidu kani mothaniki taggindi. Nenu edo moodlo aa course ki vella, but never believed it, one day ki 1000rs waste ani feel ayya tarvata, I mean energy ivvadam tesukovadam, pakkavaallani heal cheydam anta bogusla anipinchindi, ivanni panicheste docs enduku ane feeling thone vella, underlying principle enti, idi asalu nijamena? Ee typelo alochinchi almost anni courses ki attend ayya, even SSY, rajayogis, alantivi anamata, but eppudu practice cheyledu, akada nerpinche vallu matram meeru doc kabatti meeku inka useful anevaru, nenu practise modalupettaka iddaru mugguru meeda try chesi chusta:) May be adi degree ne emo, endukante vaallu last lo you are free to practise from now onwards ani chepparu, you are well trained annaru, naaku thelidu.
A. Swetha - Doctors rarely believe in any form of healing, other than their's. Coming to the difference between science and miracle, there is only a small but significant difference between the two. Science is discovered and explained facts. Miracles are also facts, but yet to be explained and understood. Why is it easy to imagine and believe mobile technology, wherein, you can just dial a number in one end of the world, and the phone rings on the other end? It is easy because, man has learnt to understand, control and use this technology. What I am trying to say here is that, just because something hasn't been totally explained and understood, it cannot be claimed as non-existent. Have you heard about telekinesis? Did you know that there is extensive R&D going on about the same? If people can believe that thoughts can have affect physical matter, then thoughts should defintely be some form of energy. Everything apart, most doctors know that the first step to recovery is the patient's own belief that he/ she will recover. Why should thought affect a physical system? Most doctors believe in positive energy and negative energy. What is this +ve enegery and -ve energy? Is it a tangible, well known energy? Does it come from any known form of energy? if so, which form of energy? Haven't all of us been in places which have felt depressive, dull and disconsorting despite the place being sparkling clean and bright? Why should something be hard to believe just because we dont understand it and cannot control it?
6. Sushma - This looks very interesting to me, may be ee energy thote chala mandi swamulu babalaga mari janala tho adukuntunaru. Positive ga use chesthe parledu kani negaative ga use chesthe chala impact untundi. Aina manam kuda adi practice cheyali ani anukovadam antha manchi idea kadu anipisthundi, endukante ila annitini mana control ki thechukunte inka doctors, god enduku ani na abhiprayam.
A. Swetha - Meeru anukunnantha easy kadu, mind reading, healing antha. It is a lot of effort, and perfecting is an extremely difficult process. So playing God is not possible. Daaniki chala sadanam avasaram.
A. Swetha - Reiki masters vuntaaru. Vaallatho nerchukoovaali. Naa abhiprayam prakaram, it is important that you learn with a gud master. Leka pothe reikini value chesedi and use chesedi kashtam ayipothundi. Naa reiki master, Prasad Acharya ani B'lorean. He is an amazing reiki master! And, nenu reiki third degree varaku chesaanu. Reiki master was very good. He knows a lot about all this. Thanani adigaanu, ee instincts, sixth sense antha enti ani. He said, something about the human's consciousness is beyond the human's own understanding, and has many amazing capabilities. He said the consciousness can wander around too, and also communicate with the universe and other consiousness , without the human knowing about it.
2. Sangeetha - How is that possible? Chaala vichithram kada and chaala interesting ga undi. May be donga Swamiji's ilanti vidyani nerchukuntaaru emo kada ...
A. Swetha - Nuvvu nammavu, naaku alaane anipinchindhi. Maybe there is some way in which this mind reading andd connectivity can be controlled. Naaku total uncontrolled waylo ayyindi. But maybe this is some sort of a science and some people may have mastered it!!! Naaku aa thought vachindhi. Maybe there is some secret art, where you can learn to read, understand another's mind. Adi thelusukoni intha dabbu sampaadhinchesthunaaremo.
3. Bindu - I've attended one day crash course on this to know how it works but never
practiced it:)
A. Swetha - Every degree of reiki will last only for one day. But is it a crash course to know about reiki or did u actually do your first degree? Sounds more like you did your first degree kada. Cheppaanuga, there will be many who do their first degree and never use it ani.
4. Swetha - My dad learned reiki. He used to do sometime back. Kani daniki everyday koncham sepu meditation cheyali. Chala mind power kavali. Manam vere valaki reiki chestunapudu, mana chetulu heat ekipotundi. So, manaki chala energy kavali. Naku nerchukovalani undedi. kani epudu antha concentrate cheyali. maa dad kooda manesaru.
A. Swetha - Daily practise avasaram ledu. It is suggested only for 21 days after you finish your degree. Inka, yeah concentration, belief and trust avasaram. Yes, energy flow kada, so reiki ichetappudu, chethulu heat ekkuthundi, but usually deeni kosam ani energy avasaram ledu, but you need to be strong so that you don't take on what you are trying to heat. Esp, when cleansing and healing people suffering from depression or negativity, you should be careful and strong, because if you are not alert or weak, you can take in the negativity into you. According to me, in reiki you need to first learn to be strong(mentally). I didn't have this ability in the begining, so I used to get easily impressed by any energy around me (either +ve or -ve). Then once I learnt how to control the energy flow through me, there was no looking back.
5. Bindu - Maa friendki okasari stomach ache ante chesanu ofcourse appatike tanu tab
vesukundi, mari daniki taggindo deniki tagindo telidu kani mothaniki taggindi. Nenu edo moodlo aa course ki vella, but never believed it, one day ki 1000rs waste ani feel ayya tarvata, I mean energy ivvadam tesukovadam, pakkavaallani heal cheydam anta bogusla anipinchindi, ivanni panicheste docs enduku ane feeling thone vella, underlying principle enti, idi asalu nijamena? Ee typelo alochinchi almost anni courses ki attend ayya, even SSY, rajayogis, alantivi anamata, but eppudu practice cheyledu, akada nerpinche vallu matram meeru doc kabatti meeku inka useful anevaru, nenu practise modalupettaka iddaru mugguru meeda try chesi chusta:) May be adi degree ne emo, endukante vaallu last lo you are free to practise from now onwards ani chepparu, you are well trained annaru, naaku thelidu.
A. Swetha - Doctors rarely believe in any form of healing, other than their's. Coming to the difference between science and miracle, there is only a small but significant difference between the two. Science is discovered and explained facts. Miracles are also facts, but yet to be explained and understood. Why is it easy to imagine and believe mobile technology, wherein, you can just dial a number in one end of the world, and the phone rings on the other end? It is easy because, man has learnt to understand, control and use this technology. What I am trying to say here is that, just because something hasn't been totally explained and understood, it cannot be claimed as non-existent. Have you heard about telekinesis? Did you know that there is extensive R&D going on about the same? If people can believe that thoughts can have affect physical matter, then thoughts should defintely be some form of energy. Everything apart, most doctors know that the first step to recovery is the patient's own belief that he/ she will recover. Why should thought affect a physical system? Most doctors believe in positive energy and negative energy. What is this +ve enegery and -ve energy? Is it a tangible, well known energy? Does it come from any known form of energy? if so, which form of energy? Haven't all of us been in places which have felt depressive, dull and disconsorting despite the place being sparkling clean and bright? Why should something be hard to believe just because we dont understand it and cannot control it?
6. Sushma - This looks very interesting to me, may be ee energy thote chala mandi swamulu babalaga mari janala tho adukuntunaru. Positive ga use chesthe parledu kani negaative ga use chesthe chala impact untundi. Aina manam kuda adi practice cheyali ani anukovadam antha manchi idea kadu anipisthundi, endukante ila annitini mana control ki thechukunte inka doctors, god enduku ani na abhiprayam.
A. Swetha - Meeru anukunnantha easy kadu, mind reading, healing antha. It is a lot of effort, and perfecting is an extremely difficult process. So playing God is not possible. Daaniki chala sadanam avasaram.
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